The world is changing and that also means that every man out there ought to change the way in which he carries himself. While gentlemen were always there from days gone by, the qualities exhibited by the gentlemen of the past are no longer sufficient on their own to make one a gentleman in the modern society. As such, here are modern qualities that are expected from a modern classy man.
Knowledge is Power
One of the most important characteristics expected from a modern classy man is being knowledgeable. Today’s society expects a gentleman to be a man who is wise in a wide array of fields. As such, if you want to become a gentleman, you need to make sure that you extensively read on different subjects ranging from economics to politics. Don’t just limit yourself to learning educational topics only, but also become knowledgeable in fields such as the entertainment field in order to know all about what’s going on in the entertainment field, gambling field knowing all about casino games and how to play games such as online roulette, poker and blackjack among others. Once you exhibit intelligence, you will realize that the gentleman tag will quickly come your way.
Never Borrow Money
They say money is never enough for anyone, but if you want to become a classy man, you need to manage to live within your budget. At the start of each month, work out your budget, set aside money for paying bills and also set aside the money that you will use during the course of the month. Ensure that you strictly abide by your budget. Once you do this, you will be able to live within your means and you will never become a pestering man who is always looking for handouts.
Know How to Flirt Properly
Gentlemen do not live in a vacuum, as such, they are expected to mix and mingle with people almost on a daily basis. It’s imperative that you improve your game (flirting wise) if you want to be considered a gentleman. Learn how to be seductive using only your body and facial expressions first and then proceed to learn how to charm anyone using sweet words. Once you master these two, you are on the right path to attain that classy man tag that you have always admired.
Just as we were talking about flirting, let’s also touch on one area that is of utmost importance if you want to become a classy man i.e. respecting women. The #METOO campaign has highlighted how some of the so-called classy men are not entirely classy due to their treatment of women. As such, you need to learn from these unfortunate experiences and adopt a mindset which always put women first.
Never Seen Running for the Bus or Train
If you want to become a classy man, then you need to ditch some of those things that you have become accustomed to such as running for the bus or train. This does not mean that you have to go out of your way to purchase a car, but rather, you need to be punctual at all times. If you are catching a bus, be at the station early.